In the “network marketing” business, you must learn to deal with all types of personality types (inside and outside of your business). At the beginning this can be extremely challenging … You feel a natural shock against the personalities that do not favor and resist / feed the conflict, etc.
Eventually, you begin to enjoy the challenge of reaching these offensive personalities or you take a step back and realize that some people simply can not be helped until they are truly prepared and you should not put any energy into those people.
After a time of interacting with so many different people and taking note of what drives them, what brings out the negativity, what makes people use “excuses” or justify “in action” or failure on their part … you start to be able to read people like a book and know who to associate with, who you can “help” with and who you should stay away from …
Those who are unhappy within themselves often feel negativity towards those who are passionate about something, positive and successful, those who come out of the box to reach a higher level. The more you get up, the more people will want to see you fall. It’s a sad reality, but sometimes you have to learn to block these negative energies and keep moving on your way.
Unhappy people try to mask their feelings about themselves with anger or irritation directed at others. They magnify other faults. Their anger / irritation is used to try to justify their actions or failures, intimidate people and try to create the feeling that they are superior as a form of control. They despise others, gossip and spread rumors to feel better.
When you meet this type of person, stay composed and in control of your emotions. Do not speak negatively about them to others. People will see for themselves who is really the one with the problem. They want you to lose control and get involved with them or expect you to make yourself look bad by crouching down to their level. By remaining calm, you will disable the person and may even try to intensify their attack on you so that you lose control. Eventually they will seek another goal if you do not play their game.
The truth is that it is not about you, it is about them and their feelings of lack.
This is something that I had to learn over time after examining myself and growing up, observing others and learning. I swear not to participate in the diffusion of negativity over others. They are all on their own journey and have an internal battle to fight. Let’s help each other instead of attacking each other to bring them down. The world would be a much better place if we lend a hand to our enemies / enemies and help them shed light on their negative energy.
After a while of interacting with so many different people and taking note of what drives them, what brings out the negativity, what makes people use “excuses” or justify in action … you start to be able to read the people like a book and know who to relate to, who you can “help” with and who you should stay on the sidelines. The last thing you want in your business or around it is drama.
Find business partners that incorporate positive characteristics and will rise! Stay away from energetic vampires who want to defeat those with passion, pessimists and enemies. You will live in a new world of prosperous and successful people!